"When you believe in things That you don't understand..." ~ Stevie Wonder The cat licking itself on the sill or at the threshold, the fork or spoon that drops to the floor; the fiery itch on your hands that you must scratch but also put straightaway into your pockets, to cinch the promise of un- expected windfall. Who knows how many shirts you wore inside out until someone noticed, and that's why you've wound up with this partner, head full of silver hair. Salt spilled on the table, ash in the middle of a life. Remember to turn your plate counter- clockwise, should anyone get up to leave in the middle of a meal. That way you'll have averted some freak accident, some truck driver running a red light and plowing into your beloved's side. This is the way you'll always feel the push and pull between looking forward and the admonition to never ever look back.