“Our lives are shorter than the stars but longer than flowers.” ~ attributed to Jeffrey Byrd No doors ever banged shut or open in our house; maybe rarely. The rooms spilled over, but just short of true chaos. Tears and tears and tears. But mostly books and laundry, laundry and books. Expenses and some foolish gains. The extravagance of a bankruptcy; years of long recovery called restructuring, then a cautious coming out on some other side. The surprise of not being completely broken. A growing quiet from the increasing absence of children; perhaps some softening in the insistence of their needs— In frustration or anger, we know we can raise our voices beyond the edgy whisper, then sink back into arms made familiar through the decades. Whenever we want, we can fill these rooms with takeout and instacart deliveries, Hulu marathons, off-key tunes on piano. We already know this is likely a preview of some of the life remaining ahead, granted we live long enough to live into it.