So little is a stone,* yes; but not so little a life. One day you're learning to walk on the grass which cushions every fall; the next, you sit in your kitchen which is suddenly empty, except, perhaps, for the cats who stay loyal to your solitude as they are to theirs. Every day I am growing more and more alone as well, though the world has gradually become noisier, as though emerging from the time of sickness and death is easy as shedding a coat. Every day we want to do a calculus of what has passed, what is lost. We want to reconstruct this, as if the wave that flung itself on the shore of what we knew has not dispersed into salt, or grit, or sand. Better perhaps to remember— once, we struck one stone against another in the middle of a night filled with such cold and dark. ~ *Naomi Shihab Nye, from "Burning the Old Year"