You look for the ones you can say my people, my people with— or they look for you and you could find each other even in the unlikeliest places: a tap on the shoulder while the glittery gala crowd does the electric slide for the thousandth time; at the Greyhound station or airport transfer terminal. You don't have to answer Are you from here-here or there- there or if you bought tickets to watch that guy whose sold out shows rehash our fathers' and uncles' backyard jokes, and you get why halo-halo with rice krispies is OK but someone has to draw the line at gummy candy or pop rocks. And OK sure, P in place of F or vice versa— but with the ones you can say my people, my people with, there is no need to explain the tingle of calamansi in the air, distinct from orange or navel or tangerine. My people, my people, perhaps we can roll with the times and dip them in sweet-sour sauce but we can't wear pineapple shirts and butterfly sleeves for halloween or do the haka in a woven g-string. And yes, even a certain dictator's son has blood on his hands. Know what I mean? Even if we are, we don't always have to be engineers or doctors or nurses, the kind that irate patients demand should be replaced by "real" ones. Hail the nannies and maids that mop the floor so hard- working, always so hard-working, the caregiver who used to be an OFW in the Middle East assigned to octogenarians at a home; the girl who walked around a foreign city with her camera, documenting how our women met in public parks to share food and news of safehouses and better jobs. Hail the trending ube lattes, the omnipresent roasted pig, bags of daing and barako that make their way, hand to traveling hand: their smoky, salty notes, indelible signatures in the air.