The Role we Play in Fate

Of the rational soul, the Stoics  
believed it was ideal to master

the push and pull of the world on
heart and head; to practice the art

of cool withdrawal from tempests 
we can't thwart or subdue. Marcus 

Aurelius, what did you really mean 
when you said we are to love only 

what happens? I have trouble 
thinking of destiny as a cart 

pulling a dog who's digging its hind
legs hard into the mud— shouldn't it

be the other way around? And who
is driving the cart? Alicia Ostriker wrote

They say God loves a shattered heart
and also a soft one     and a wild one that sparkles*

The child is newly finding words for all the big 
feelings suddenly welling up inside him;

and yet he also intuits— the moment before
the turn from one to the other is past 

recovery. Foraging birds in the blueberry bush 
startle when he sobs, Make me happy.



- from Alicia Ostriker's "Memo to Self:
Ten Reasons for Love"

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